We all have to deal with our share of hotheads and crazies. What does research say works with them?
First off, you can’t get angry too. Because then there are two crazy people arguing. While very entertaining to onlookers, this doesn’t accomplish much.
Tell yourself they are having a bad day and that it’s not about you:
Telling yourself that an angry person is just having a bad day and that it’s not about you can help take the sting out of their ire, a new study suggests… the researchers monitored participants’ brain activity and found that reappraising another person’s anger eliminated the electrical signals associated with negative emotions when seeing angry faces.
They’re being crazy. You’ll want to shut them up or talk over them. Don’t. It’s a natural reaction but it doesn’t work.
They don’t think they’re wrong. They’ll just interpret it as a…
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Vi siete mai accorti che al mio David manca un muscolo? Probabilmente no a meno che non siate dei super esperti in anatomia o conosciate molto bene la mia opera e i dibattiti che ha acceso nel corso dei secoli.
Ebbene. Qualche anno fa i due medici Pietro Antonio Bernabei e Massimo Gulisano, rispettivamente ematologo e anatomista, sono stati interpellati per studiare a fondo l’anatomia del David. Dopo la chiusura serale al pubblico della Galleria dell’Accademia, alcune volte a settimana venivano montati i ponteggi attornioal gigante affinché i due professori potessero guardare e studiare approfonditamente la sua anatomia.
Me l’hanno spulciato da capo a piedi tentando di capire se davvero conoscevo così bene il corpo umano da riprodurlo in maniera perfetta. Li stavo a guardare mentre erano tutti intendi a scrutare il David: avreste dovuto vedere anche voi le loro facce stupite al cospetto delle anatomie impeccabili. Trovarono pane per i loro…
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During my short time living in Shipëria, I have noticed many things that are different here, that someone in America may notice. You may notice that I often use the word different to describe things in Albania, because things are not necessarily better or worse here, but they are different. In the end, attitude is the main factor in opinions of whether one country in better than another. I feel that I can learn many things from Albanians and in turn they can learn many things from me. Neither country is…
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He Does Class and Race, She Does Gender and Sexuality (and Class and Race): Heteronormativity in the Left Academy
By Lisa Duggan
Parts of this blog post have been adapted from my 2014 American Studies Association Presidential Address, forthcoming in American Quarterly.
Have you noticed? The way that so many left academic couples divide up the intellectual and political world in their scholarship and institutional alliances? So many of the straight-identified men analyze the dynamics of class, and sometimes race, but leave gender and sexuality out. As a set-aside agenda of sorts for the women and queers to undertake. The female partners of these men often (not always) address gender and sexuality, usually along with class and race (though again, not always). It’s kind of like the primary responsibility for housework—there’s a double day for the feminized, who also legitimate the guys. Who can say he’s not a feminist, not a queer ally, if his consort and/or close comrades take care of that for him?
Of course it’s…
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Her revenge is a long wrench. Her
blood-drenched sword will not deter
her drummed up horde to pester me.
A stabbing tour: a feast to see!
She flaunts her lust to hurl me blind,
wanting to carry me beyond.
The old bitch pants away. Behind
the panting horde, with her up front.
She outpants it. As she does me.
Plays pathetic spells ne’er to be.
The banner proudly swells on
preparing a vengeful affront,
for what? For her earsplitting squall?
No one for her lust to clutch?
Abundant is her bitter gall.
Bitches hate bitches this much.
The watch prods a conceited cusp.
If only for fair play – just once!
Hysterically howls the wind.
In her throat the dust.
The watch for revenge is tough.
It breaks up the goal-event; bluff!
The match is called off.
She hurls down. Enraged beast!
Matter is thin, swig is short.
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